Heather Townsend, Guest Author
What’s worse? A palm-shattering, bone crunching handshake? Or, a being offered a hand which feels more like a limp fish?
Handshakes are a sign of trust and help build strong relationships. As a busy professional, it is important that you make a memorable positive impression when you are out networking or meeting potential new clients.
Your handshake is just one of the ways you can build a positive first impression. It’s interesting to note that a study by the Incomm Center for Trade Show Research has found that if you shake hands with people, they are two times more likely to remember you than if you didn’t shake hands.
Psychologists have found that if you take the initiative and move forward to meet and greet a person, their impression of you will be more favourable than if you waited for them to make the initiative.
However, handshakes mean different things in different cultures. In today’s global marketplace, you could find yourself doing business with people from Africa, Japan or America. Where as in the US, a firm handshake equals self-confidence, but in Africa a limp handshake is the way to do it. In Africa, expect to be shaking hands for as much as a couple of minutes. In the US expect to get some very strange looks if your handshake goes on for more than a few seconds.
I’m guessing that many people don’t know the full impact of their handshake – and don’t even give their handshake a moment’s thought. My suggestion is you need to be aware of the first impression that your handshake portrays. That’s right, I’m suggesting that you practice your handshake on friends and family and ask how it comes across. Sounds embarrassing? Better that you know about a problem, before it impacts on your career or potential to win new business.
BONUS Article: When You Shake Hands… Really Shake Hands!
Copyright © 2013 – Heather Townsend. Heather helps professionals and firms become the Go-To-Expert. Unusually for someone with an Engineering Degree, she accidentally became a writer and used her knowledge on social media to write the current best-selling and award-winning book on networking, “The Financial Times Guide To Business Networking.” (75 five star reviews on Amazon). She is a widely published writer, international speaker, Executive Coach and a referral marketing expert.
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